During a conversation with my niece, a recent college grad, she asked me for some advice on what to wear now that she’s getting ready to transition to a professional lifestyle. I asked her three questions that should help any young woman define her personal style.

My three younger kids are pretty good travelers. But packing for our adventures is where they need some help. So when we’re getting ready to go away for a week or more, and we need all the shorts, t-shirts, bathing suits, hats, sandals, etc. I like to use this simple, three-step trick to pack for my kids.

How do I walk the fine line between a being collector of meaningful pieces vs. a hoarder of junk? I follow this 10-step approach to de-clutter my jewelry case and decide if I’ll actually wear each piece again, or if they would be better off in a new home.

Some people look amazing in shorts. But I have never found a pair of classic shorts that are flattering or comfortable. And I know I’m not alone. I’ve spoken to many women who feel the same. So, how can we stay cool in the summertime and still look cool? Here are some options that have served me well.

When I worked at Nordstrom, representatives from different companies would come in and educate sales associates on products. These sessions were voluntary and weren’t always well attended—any time off the floor meant the possibility of a losing a sale and a commission. But I tried to attend every one. I never turn down an opportunity to learn.

All denim begins as raw cotton. So why do some jeans feel softer and fit better than others? It’s all in the manufacturing process. “Premium” denim is not only defined by the label, but by how it’s made.